dee's scrapbook
(via scribble-scribbles)
“You may not be her first, her last, or her only. She loved before she may love again. But if she loves you now, what else matters? She’s not perfect - you aren’t either, and the two of you may never be perfect together but if she can make you laugh, cause you to think twice, and admit to being human and making mistakes, hold onto her and give her the most you can. She may not be thinking about you every second of the day, but she will give you a part of her that she knows you can break - her heart. So don’t hurt her, don’t change her, don’t analyze and don’t expect more than she can give. Smile when she makes you happy, let her know when she makes you mad, and miss her when she’s not there”
Bob Marley. (via quote-book) (via treehousestories)
“Nothing that’s worthwhile is ever easy. Remember that.”
Nicholas Sparks (via kari-shma) (via quote-book)
I fluctuate between being happy that I have this much time to myself, and being rather upset that the boy’s not around to spend time with me. There are tons of things I should start doing during this period, and I know I’ll be able to do them best when he’s not around, so I should get around to it.
10 more days till he’s back, and 2 more before I go off on my own little trip. :)
Talk about losing your head in love, pfft.
(via satelliteofyou)
Cheating Tiger.
Headlines of Tiger Woods cheating on his wife has been plastered on the front pages of newspaper all over the world.
I feel extremely sad for Elin (his wife). If I were her, I would just leave him. Who cares about the immediate USD5million that he’s going to pay her? So what if that is a lot of money. A scorned woman is an angry woman. If I were Elin, I would leave Tiger with the kids once and for all. After all, getting the kids’ custodies wouldn’t be difficult for her. And leaving Tiger means that his reputation would be ruined (no more endorsements), and no chance for redemption!
*Sigh* I really feel for Elin. She probably has her other reasons for not leaving, like having 2 really young children to care for. I mean, this is not going to be easy for the kids as well. I doubt they understand the grievances of their mother, and also the seriousness of their father’s nuptial crime, and perhaps the ordeal of living under the public scrutiny for some time. Tsk.
Nonetheless, a cheat is a cheat IS A CHEAT. I hate cheaters! In fact, the lowliest of all scums. This is one category of people I despise and would never respect. The other being unfilial people (but I’ll talk about this some other time).
In my opinion (if you disagree, i don’t really care; but if you agree, hello comrades), cheating on your loved ones is the lowest that anyone can get. These people have their utmost faith, love and trust on you. Cheating on them means that you betrayed all their beliefs and really, you have NO regards for them at all. Because if you truly love or care for someone, you will think twice about cheating. You think of the consequences, the effects, the future, and how life will change after that and whether these repercussions are something you’re prepared for. Sadly, most cheaters don’t think about all these when they cheat.
Even if one survives a cheating ordeal, can any party truly recover from it? Say, the one being cheated on, can he/she forgives and forget about the incident. I dare say no. Because very likely, while the heart and mind forgives, they don’t forget. And as for the cheater, the leopard never changes its spots, if you cheat once for whatever reason, you would really be viewed as the unreliable and irresponsible type. No matter what you try to do to redeem yourself, your loved ones will still be wary of you. And what of the 3rd parties? Obviously these people are quite the fool themselves. They don’t deserved to be forgiven, especially when they’ve wrecked someone’s live. Haven’t they thought of the consequences before committing the affair? Will they be contempt to be the other woman? And are they so delusional to want to live a lie? And you can just tell/judge the person’s character and morals by their actions. As for the clueless 3rd parties, are you so stupid not to realise that you are committing an affair. You should have known by all the tell tale signs.
So yes, by the end of this entry, you probably can guess that I’ve zero tolerance for cheaters, affairs, whatever man. While they say it takes 2 hands to clap, 2 people in the relationship to cause its breakdown whatever, being a cheater when you’re in a relationship is just wrong. If you claim to not love your partner, at least have the decency to just tell and leave, instead of betraying and cheat. And if you claim to love your partner and had cheated out of foolishness, you’re not just a cheater, but a damn liar.
All in all, I’m thankful that my partner shares the same beliefs as me. After all, I do think my stand of cheating is not unreasonable. Ah, so blessed =)
I totally agree. Cheaters are scum, and cheating is enough reason for a relationship to end. It’s very hard to say with second chances whether or not a person will change, I don’t believe in second chances at all for cheating.
In fact, I don’t even understand how people can fall in love with two (or more) people at the same time, but I shan’t impose my opinions on that. There was some hoo-haa in the papers about a reporter calling men pigs for being cheats. Well a bit brash to say so in a public space, but given the genetic make up of men, i.e. horny, guys cheat because they’d like to inseminate the female population. I don’t think God meant it that way when he said go forth and multiply, given that He created only one Eve for Adam.
Anyhow hell hath no fury like a woman scorned, and especially so for me if you’re a cheat.
